Lunch with the grandparents at the biker bar

I made a realization today. Since graduating from college, I have yet to make any goals. Typically I have financial, educational, and emotional goals that I set at the beginning of each semester and I have yet to do that this semester.

There are many things I want to accomplish in life, but if I don't give them some dead-lines, then it will never get done.

1) Live in Belize

2) Own a peach orchard

3) Become debt free

4) Take a trip back to Guatemala

5) Move to another city in the states: Boston, Atlanta, or New York



With as nice as it is to share a life with someone else, I always give up on my hopes and dreams and adapt to that persons wishes and wants. For once I'm going to selfish and do what I want to do. I give, give, give. Not any more. If a guy wants to be in my life, he will have to fight tooth and nail for me to consider him worthy of my time. And if I end up all alone in the end, then at least I will know that I've done everything I've ever wanted to do. And in all honesty, there are two people in my life right now that I want to still be friends with when I'm 90.

I stand upon my desk to remind myself that we must constantly look at things in a different way. Dead Poets Society